Rejection

Most men HATE the idea of "rejection". I'm not talking about "don't like the idea" or"wish it didn't happen"... I'm talking HATE here. The idea of walking up to a woman and havingher REJECT you causes most men to instantly feelsick in the pit of their stomachs and literallyfeel a horrible combination of nervousness andconfusion. A guy can psych himself up for an hour to gotalk to a woman, but when the moment comes toactually DO IT, EVERYTHING changes. The heart rate shoots up, breathing quickens,eyes dart back and forth, thoughts of rejectionfill the mind, and eventually the pressure becomestoo much to bare. Most men find this state so scary that they endup deciding to forget about approaching thewomen... just to end the discomfort. The temptation is great to just "walk away"because just as quickly as the intense nervousnessis triggered by the moment one decides to ACT, itgoes away when you decide to "forget about it andwalk away". The fact that "choosing to walk away" leads tothe "instant gratification" of the nervous feelinggoing away makes it the most popular option. Most of the time (and I'm talking aboutprobably 99% of the time here) men just walk away.They give up before they've even started. I find this topic fascinating. If I just think about it, I can remember MANYtimes in my past where I wanted to talk to awoman, but I just didn't do it.

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